Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Frankie turns 27 !

Frankie in 1994


Today our sweet Frankie turns 27! That is amazing to me that she could possibly be that old! She was three when we met her as a bright eyed darling in our Sunday school class. At that time she had been placed in foster care with another family.
Anyone who knows Frankie knows she is an amazing young lady! She has a very tender heart and still looks at life with amazement through those lovely green eyes! In 1990, Jon and I married and this sweet face would be the flower girl in our wedding. At the moment Uncle David said, 'You may kiss the bride,' and Mr. Jon kissed Ms. Lisa, Frankie put her hands on her hips and scowled in dis-approvement. Even she knew you don't kiss  in the church building!
The first year of marriage is always filled with changes. For Jon and I it would be the news that Frankie's foster care status had changed and they were now looking for permanent placement. Frankie was to return to the state and a new home would be found for her. The thought of Frankie leaving the church family that had wrapped their arms around her was too much! Also knowing with all this sweet child had endured in her little lifetime she would need God. Armed with those convictions, we applied to be permanent guardian of Frankie, the following week she moved in with us. Married less than six months and the parents to a now six year old. Sometimes I wonder, who thought that was a good idea?! But, God knows best and it has been quite the journey.
Frankie, Alicia & Jackie
Frankie has three beautiful biological sisters and as the girls grew up they kept in contact, had sleepovers, attended church camp together etc. Although even by the time Frankie was three she had already been in nine foster care homes, so the girls did not really spend a lot of time in the biological home together it was still very important for them to keep contact. And for Jon and I it was helpful to have friendships with parents facing the same issues that we faced.
God has placed many 'helpers' in our way as Frankie has grown up, for that we are so blessed. Some days it is easy to get weighed down with the things that Frankie is unable to accomplish, thru no fault of her own but the selfish acts of adults. But most days when I look at Frankie this is the child I see, eyes full of wonder, excitement and hope. I love our sweet Francis Marie, and wish you the happiest birthday. Tomorrow I'll post pics of gifts and this morning's fun!
 
Rejoice with those who rejoice
Romans 12:15

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